It was in September of 2005, that
I was called for an interview with Dr. Elspeth Smith the first Vice President,
University Relations of the American University of Nigeria. After a quick talk and
a brief interview, I was offered an appointment as an Admin Assistant to the VPUR, despite having a Master's and 8 years of
work experience then. I was in charge of the newsletters and other
communication including the internal Press Corps.
As I joined and was being put through
my paces by the VP, A young man in his early 40’s walked in wearing a blue
kaftan. I was introduced to him as Sameer, the guy who will be working on the
Newsletters and other publications. He was introduced to me as Abba (Ehba as
VPUR pronounced it) the Director of PR and Marketing and he asked me about my
background, I told him my first degree was in Mass Communication from the
University of Maiduguri and he told me his was too. He was friendly and had a
whole lot of Knowledge and the good thing was, his office was right outside
mine. He was also surprised that I too was a “Yola boy” with work experience in
Lagos, same as him, though I was always in Sales and Marketing and never in Communications.
At that time the hierarchy at
the University Relations Department was VPUR, Director of PR and Marketing, 2
Admin Assistants, and one Office Assistant. We were in charge of Visibility,
Internal Communications (Newsletters, Informational Backs, etc.), Press
Relations, Staff Relations, Assisting the Admissions Department in Student Recruitment,
etc. In Short, we 5 were dynamic enough to assist with every unit at the
University when the need arose. But while the 2 Admin Assistants were directly under VPUR and had no compulsion to report to any
other person in the unit, I refused. I looped Oga Abba into anything I was
doing whether VPUR told him or not (She actually informed him of everything during
our daily reports). While others called him by his first name of Abba (American
Style), I refused. He was older and more experienced than me. We were not on
the same level and could never be. He would always be ahead. He was Oga Abba or
Sir and not Abba.
We were a very close-knit unit
and we were more like family to the amazement of the others. I on my part would
copy Oga Abba on all emails or correspondence I shared with VPUR because that
was procedurally right. Oga Abba brought me close to him, he and VPUR laughed
at my jokes, even when I cracked them during intense meetings to lighten up the
mood. None of my bosses (Both Dr. Elspeth and Abba) ever stopped me from doing
anything that I felt was beneficial for us. There was NO jealousy on the part of
VPUR or DPRM as I made progress. I had excellent mentors in both of them. They always
praised our good work, appreciated all good ideas, and never stopped us from
achieving them. When VPUR was not on Seat, Oga Abba was in charge, when both
the bosses were out, I was in Charge and so on.
Like family, if VPUR was traveling,
we’d all see her off, together. When Oga Abba left for Washington for his AILA
Fellowhip, we ALL (including VPUR) saw him off and also received him on his
return. This was a norm. This was family.
When we moved to the permanent
campus, mine and Oga Abba’s offices were next to each other, overlooking the
main entrance of the Peter Okocha Building. Oga Abba always genuinely encouraged
me to do better. I never did anything to disrespect him regardless of who I was
reporting to. Eventually, I became the Coordinator of Special Projects working together
with the AUN President for any project that we were doing. Of course, I still
reported to VPUR but still looped in Oga Abba in all I was doing. My Office
also had moved to a single office. Oga’s advice was always valuable.
I learned a lot from Oga Abba,
he was a mentor. He was the MC during my wedding and he was excited that it was
a cross-cultural wedding when Sonia was born, he was just as excited, as Dr. Elspeth
was. Because of Elspeth Smith and Abba Tahir, the UR Department was judged the
best department at AUN, as we could overlap very easily, be in logistics,
events, visibility, etc. In fact when Prof. Piyush Mather came to my office to
ask me if I knew any journalist who could take one of his courses as he wanted
someone with industry experience, without thinking I led him to Dr. Abba and
that was his first entry into becoming an adjunct faculty at AUN.
However, my responsibilities were
increasing, but my salary wasn’t, despite my experience. With a growing family,
it was becoming unsustainable, so I decided to look for other opportunities
outside and I got a fantastic offer in Abuja in 2008. I sat the VPUR down and
said that I had a job offer in Abuja and would like to explore it and get more
experience doing other things as well. There was deafening silence, and her face fell. Sometime
later she called me and said, “ Sameer I'm going to promote you to Associate
Director of Special Projects as you have the capacity and experience to do this
job. I have already told HR to affect that change and your salary has been increased……”
The salary that was being offered to me was higher than that of Oga Abba, a
Director with more than 15 years of experience (as of then), and the ONLY
person who had joined AUN from being the CEO of a Government Parastatal. This guy
had occupied positions that one joining AUN had as of then. This was
unacceptable to me. I would not be equal to my boss or even surpass him. His experience
was way beyond mine. I humbly told VPUR, that while I accepted that promotion,
I could accept a salary higher than Oga Abba. For one, I was not equal to Oga
Abba. The only way was, to either increase his salary so that my conscience would
accept the new salary or kindly allow me to go. Well, I left. But the
recommendation I got from the President of AUN, Dr. Michael Smith was still one
of the best recommendations I had received. I was also assured of getting my
job back at AUN if Abuja didn’t work out.
I think Oga Abba must have found
out what happened cause his love for me only increased, so much so that in
2010, under the presidency of a different AUN President, he facilitated my
return. And when the chips were down and there was a lot of pressure on him
from a lot of misinformation about me, Oga Abba was the rock who shielded me.
He was also responsible for my
3rd sojourn at AUN, when he as Vice President of University
Relations, put his foot down and said he wanted the best candidate amongst the
30 applicants for the position of Director of Development, not someone
appointed on the basis of ethnicity, religion or who he knew. He wanted capacity
for AUN, and when they checked for the best candidate, it still was me. So, lo
and behold, I got back to AUN for the 3rd time till the Covid issue
forced us out of AUN.
Over the years, I have always
been in touch with Oga Abba, almost daily. I was part of his train when he was
made the Kaakaakey I of Fombina.
This was one of my most memorable days. No matter my other experiences, I have
never tried to be above the KaaKaakey in any way. He made me who I am professionally.
My CV is rich today, largely because of the mentorship I received from Oga Abba
and Dr. Elspeth Smith. Oga Abba definitely for a longer period and still to
date. No doubt that he has been up there when it comes to bosses I have worked
for. But then, the word boss doesn’t apply to him. The KaaKaaKey is a leader.
I too, have tried to shield
him from people I believe only want to use his goodness and stab him and he
knows this. He also knows that anything I have said has come to pass. It broke
my heart to see the KaaKaaKey leave AUN, But I also believe that the Almighty
was preparing him for another role. Yes, as humans, we all have erred before. But to trust is not to err.
Today, Prof Abba Tahir, PhD the KaaKaaKey
I of Fombina (Adamawa Emirate) has
been appointed the Registrar of Prime University
in Abuja. One thing I can say is that the American work ethic will be
enforced at Prime. Expect world-class rebranding. Expect a world-class vision
and focus. Expect experienced Faculty and Staff. Expect excellent mentorship of
ALL Nigerians and others, for one thing, the KaaKaaKay is not an ethnic crusader.
He doesn’t care if you’re Lanre, Usoh, Ben, Amina, Umma or even Sameer. Just
get the job done. He is our Boss of the Bosses.
The KaaKaakey duk dunya. The SilverTongue of AUN, now of Prime. The
bamboozeler of the bamboozees. The Adam with the apple and the pineapple. A
gentleman par excellence and my Boss of Life.